Continuing on in reflection to our actual wedding itself...
Right before I walked down the aisle, I got really nervous. I looked up at Jensen, filling in for father-of-the-bride before taking his place as a groomsmen. He said "what? did you want me to wear a nametag?" and pulled out a pre-made tag that said "Big Daddy". And then we started down the aisle. I was told that when you look around, it's really neat to think that all of those people are there because they're happy and excited for you, so I thought about that on our way down and I will say that it is really cool. Once we got to the front, everything went really fast.
After tons of consideration, I finally settled on the readings and music for the ceremony, a few of which I'll share here.
1. The Gift of Love is what I walked down the aisle to. I loved the style of this song. In the context of a small chapel, trumpets seemed like maybe a little much, and although 'How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria' was suggested more than once, I wasn't sure that I wanted the word 'flighty' in a ceremony about commitment. I'd decided on 'Edelweiss' in keeping with the same Sound of Music theme at some point, but the church put the kabosh on that, and thus I ended up with this one, which I absolutely fell in love with. 2. 1 John 4:7-12: We had three readings, and this one is my favorite because it explains that we love one another, but that love comes from God.
4. My very favorite part of our ceremony was the a solo performance by the talented Rob Jacobs of 'Behold the Lamb of God' during communion. It was important to me that the gospel was honored at our wedding since a wedding is supposed to be a demonstration of Christ's relationship with the church. And I found it to be very fitting for communion.
Our wedding party was amazing, consisting of four brothers, 1 sister-in-law, 3 friends, a little cousin, and a sweet little girl. One of my favorite parts of our wedding, cosmetically, was the bridesmaids dresses. They were the first thing that I picked out, and I'm still in love. After I picked those, I worked on the flower girl dress and went back and forth between a silver flower-girl dress and a junior bridesmaids dress that coordinated with the bridesmaids. Emily ended up making the decision after discussing the "shape" of the dress with me. As you can see here, we went with the mini bridesmaids dress. And I LOVED IT.
Another of my favorite cosmetic details of our wedding was the flower choice. I went with all white lillies after much debate over a million different types. I love simple elegance and I really strived to not overtake things that I loved (like the church), with other details. The florist was hesitant to just use ONE flower, but I'm really glad that we stuck with it.
This cake caused me a lot of grief. This is the photo post-wedding-coordinator-makeover. But when I originally saw it, 30 minutes before pictures, I had a royal meltdown and I'm actually just a little bit embarrassed about how I acted. I called the baker, who of course didn't answer the phone and never called me back, and all I saw was our whole reception falling apart. People told me before our wedding that there would be things that went wrong and that I couldn't let it get to me, and I would give the same advice to someone else, but I let the cake get to me. That's my one wedding regret. I spent the 45 minutes prior to our wedding trying to pull it back together after seeing the cake, even after the coordinator assured me that she would fix it. I think that my mom was also a little embarrassed because she got this really panicked look on her face and goes "SHE is REALLY tired. She hasn't slept..." Oh cake...

Another one of my favorite things about our wedding was the tiger's visit. As someone who can't keep a secret, especially my own, I was proud of myself for keeping this under wraps. Of course every wedding needs a little tiger rag.
And of course tons of dancing. This was, of course, one of the best days of my life. I wish we could do it again, but we can't, so I'm glad that we have all of this amazing photography from my favorite of all of our vendors, Kim DeLoach Photography :) Does everyone feel like you went to our wedding either for the first time or again now?